So Christmas has come and gone. Seems like the last six months of 2007 flew by at record speed. And here we are only a few days until the new year. I feel blessed in many ways for this past year. While the first half had its rough spots, primarily the last quarter of my design schooling, overall it was a year of accomplishment, exploration through travel, and rekindling and establishing new friendships. It appears that 2008 will be a challenging one but I hope it will be filled with blessings - with a little luck, lots of residential work and a successful business; evolving relationships with a few visits to new locations. Man where has all the time gone.
Anyhow, I won’t waste anymore of your time. Let’s get moving with this week’s Thursday edition of ‘THIS OR THAT.’ I just want to let you know that Spider gave me some input on the selections - so two ‘devilish’ minds were at work. *smirk*
So tell me how you perceive yourself, characteristics or otherwise, based on the word listings. Be yourself, be honest. There is no right or wrong in any potential response. Select one of two on each line that most closely describes you presently.
Sensitive -or- Stoic
Exhibitionist -or- Voyeurist
Chest -or- ‘Arse’
Territorial -or- ‘What’s mine is yours’
Compassionate -or- Hard-nosed
Activist -or- Pacifist
‘Can keep a secret’ -or- ‘Need to tell at least one person’
Frugal -or- Extravagant
Ticklish -or- Not ticklish
Out-spoken -or- Soft-spoken
Religious -or- Spiritual (think about this one before stepping in with your answer)
Afterlife -or- Reincarnation
Sex on the first date -or- Sex when the individual feels ‘right’
So let me here your answers. Can’t wait. In case you are somehow dying to know my responses, here they are: sensitive by all means; exhibitionist - who moi?; ‘arse’ man all the way and if it’s right I’ll be buried in it; admittedly both territorial and ‘what’s mine is yours;’ compassionate, to the point I think some people just don’t understand me;
I’d say I am probably more of a pacifist though certain issues push me into being an activist, like children; ‘can keep a secret’ unless the secret/the issue is really bothering me - then sometimes I need to talk to one disinterested person; if I have to pick one over the other, I’m probably more frugal than extravagant; ticklish - feet, under the armpits, and on the right spot of my stomach; soft-spoken; religious - don’t particularly care what others think of me in that respect, whether your gay or straight; after-life (heaven); and “sex when the individual feels ‘right’ ” though I have gone for it, that’s sex on the first date, if the physical chemistry was just too over-the-top!! That’s a wrap on my end.
December 27, 2007 at 5:42 am
Ooh, la la….this does make me nervous, but here goes:
Sensitive
Exhibitionist…definitely
Arse
You can have anything I do
Pacifist with a huge mouth
Huge secret keeper….
Frugal
A little ticklish
Outspoken
Spiritual with religious roots and church-going habits
???????????????…and don’t even think about it
SEX…on the first date and otherwise
December 27, 2007 at 8:28 am
Sensitive - perhaps too much
Exhibitionist - heavens yes, i ‘drop trou’ at the drop of a hat.
‘Arse’- a nice backside is a heart warming spectacle.
‘What’s mine is yours’ - yes indeed
Compassionate - again perhaps too much
Pacifist
‘Can keep a secret’
Frugal - and at times cheap!
Not ticklish - as i so love to be touched it is impossible to tickle me.
Soft-spoken thanks to Midwestern upbringing
Religious AND spiritual - i know what both are and I am so.
Afterlife - i shudder at the notion of reincarnation; the idea of going from one life to the next like some sort of cosmic hermit crab sounds appalling.
Sex on the first date - but not in over 15 years!
December 28, 2007 at 4:59 am
Golly-gee, Tony, I hope it’s still okay on a Friday to do a Thursday This or That!
So (assuming it is) …

1. Sensitive (I cry at everything - such a sap, I am!)
2. Except in certain rare exceptions (in which i can be an exhibitionist without a drop of alcohol), I’d rather watch (Voyeurist)
3. Both are mighty fine, but I guess I have to admit I’m a chest man. I see a good one and I fantasize about suckling all day.
4. I’m usually “What’s mine is yours” - as long as I am giving it and you are not taking it.
5. Oh, Compassionate! (see sensitive above)
6. I tend to be pacifist.
7. I think I “can keep a secret”, but if it’s good news I am sorely tempted “to tell at least one person”
8. Overall I tend to be frugal (a nice word for cheap). Brad would be proud of me.
9. Ticklish or not ticklish? I refuse to answer on the grounds that we may meet some day and I don’t trust you to keep you hands to yourself.
10. Hey! God gave me a mouth. He expects me to use it! (Out-spoken)
11. Religious or spiritual? I would like to know your distinction before I answer, especially after your caution. Using my own understanding of the difference, I would say that I was (and still am) religious but that I am moving toward a more spiritual position.
12. Afterlife, because “karma’s a bitch”
13. Sex on the first date -or- Sex when the individual feels “right”? Aren’t they one and the same? LOL! Seriously, I would go with a slight variation on the second option: sex when it feels right for both.
December 28, 2007 at 12:47 pm
Sensitive
Voyeuristic (unless tequila is involved)
I’ve got a great ass, and I love a great ass
Territorial – but I’ll share until you screw my stuff up or get greedy
Compassionate
Pacifist
‘Can keep a secret’
Extravagant by NATURE – Frugal by circumstances
VERY Ticklish
Soft-spoken
Spiritual
Reincarnate me until I’m ready for the afterlife. I really think it depends what your needs are (spiritually speaking)
Sex – what’s a date? Nah, I’m more of sex when it feels right, but that’s from too many years of sex on the first date.
December 29, 2007 at 1:01 pm
sensitive
exhibitionist
chest
what’s mine is yours
compassionate
activist
need to tell at least one person
extravagant
not ticklish
outspoken in a soft way
spiritual
reincarnation is afterlife?
sex whenever…first date is good.
December 29, 2007 at 1:26 pm
Stoic. to a fault
Exhibitionist. do you want me to show you?
Chest. avec hair
Territorial
Hardnosed
Pacificst
Can keep a secret
Frugal
Ticklish
Out spoken
Spiritual
Neither
Do I need have been on a date to have sex?
December 31, 2007 at 12:17 pm
Sensitive, but can be stoic for someone else.
Exhibitionist
I second Blobby!
Territorial
Compassionate
Activist (in literal principle a pacifist)
Can keep a secret
Attempt to be frugal but lean more towards extravagant
Ticklish
Out spoken
Spiritual
A karmic afterlife
When it feels right (which is often the first date)
Happy New Year Tony!
January 1, 2008 at 7:35 am
Sensitive: I’m a big ole’ softie…cry at the drop of a hat.
Voyeurist: Since I tend to be shy, I prefer to watch, though the healthier/fitter I get, the more I’m liking to “show off”.
Chest: I love an extremely muscled set of pecs with huge nipples and some fur…though I also love a hard muscled butt. Decisions, decisions!
Territorial: I’m very protective of what’s mine….but if you’re friend or family I’ll give anything to you.
Compassionate: I’m the classic Cancerian.
Pacifist: I suppose I have to choose pacifist even though I prefer to work for change quietly in the background.
‘Can keep a secret’: I seem to be “the vault” for a lot of people.
Frugal: Without a doubt, I tend to be frugal.
Ticklish: I’m usually only ticklish in 2-3 places. My ‘Mr. Right’ will know just where that is.
Soft-spoken: I usually am soft-spoken.
Religious: I was brought up learning Catholic rituals and traditions…that feels comfortable to me. Granted, I’m a lapsed Catholic now, but Mass always feels like a comfy, warm sweater.
Afterlife -or- Reincarnation: I honestly am totally stumped by this one…..pretty much 50/50.
Sex when the individual feels ‘right’: It takes time for me to feel comfortable with someone.
January 1, 2008 at 4:08 pm
Stoic
Voyeurist
‘Arse’
Territorial
Compassionate
Activist
Need to tell at least one person
Frugal
Ticklish
Out-spoken
Religious -or- Spiritual NEITHER
Afterlife -or- Reincarnation NEITHER
Sex on the first date
January 2, 2008 at 4:50 am
Sensitive- but I can be stoic when I need to
Exhibitionist
Chest-ever was it thus
What’s mine is yours- although I have my limits
Compassionate
Pacifist
Need to tell at least one person- generally it’s L.
Frugal- some would say cheap.
Ticklish- excessively so.
Out-spoken- but I can hpolkd back on this when I perceive thait’s needed.
Spiritual- I want nothing to do with organized religion. My spirituality springs from my relationship with the natural world.
Afterlife -or- Reincarnation- Neither. I believe that dex on the first date -or- ath really is an ending.
Sex when the individual feels ‘right.’- Of course, that can be on the first date. But my most recent first date was over 25 years ago.
January 3, 2008 at 6:06 pm
So i posted today…i am in some MAJOR funk. UGH! Anyway…hope your stay in Chicago was really good. I am sure it was *wink*
January 4, 2008 at 12:37 pm
Okay, let’s see. I am:
Stoic - but only to hide how very sensitive I really am.
Voyeurist - I’d rather watch than be watched.
Chest -or- ‘Arse’- I’m an arms-and-shoulders kinda guy. Of course, a nice ass is a thing of beauty…
‘What’s mine is yours’ - if you’re someone I like, I’ll give you the shirt off my back.
Compassionate - I try hard to put myself in the other guy’s shoes
Pacifist - I only fight when I have to, and then I fight exactly as dirty as I think I need to in order to win.
‘Need to tell at least one person’ - it’s what my blog’s all about.
Frugal - but because of poverty, not by choice.
Ticklish - but it’s a giant secret, so don’t tell anyone!
Soft-spoken - I believe in carrying a big stick.
Religious -or- Spiritual - mostly atheist, with a little metaphysics on the side.
Afterlife -or- Reincarnation - neither.
Sex on the first date -or- Sex when the individual feels ‘right’- you mean the first date can’t feel right?
Hang in there, Tony.
January 8, 2008 at 4:14 am
Sensitive, definitely.
Can’t I be both a voyeur and exhibitionist? I love being an exhibitionist, but I also quite enjoy watching!
Chest, usually, but sometimes a perfect ass….mmmm……
Dunno, honestly, I haven’t ever been in a serious enough relationship to tell. My roomie and I are pretty much middleground on that one though.
Compassionate, I think. But I’m sure some people would disagree.
Definitely more of an activist than a pacificist, but I won’t be marching on Washington next week or anything.
Definitely need to tell at least one person, but I hate repeating myself so its usually just one. And usually it’s a carefully selected one who knows to keep their mouth shut and doesn’t know whoever its about.
I’m forced into being frugal but I much prefer extravagance!
I plead the fifth…….
Out-spoken. There’s really nothing quiet about me.
I guess both? It’s hard, and I think a lot of it has to do with what you mean by “spiritual”.
Afterlife
There was a time when I would have said sex on the first date, but I think I’m beyond that…except for in a few rare cases…but more often than not “when the individual feels right”
January 10, 2008 at 9:18 pm
Hmmmm … some of these change situationally, but here goes:
sensitive
exhibitionist
chest
what’s mine is yours
compassionate. Like, way.
pacifist
can keep a secret
frugal, but then there’s the Porsche…
ticklish
soft-spoken
sex when the individual feel ‘right’